Don't let me stray
But all temptations are intended to lead us to forget, ignore or drift away from the will of God. Sins of ignorance are sins committed unintentionally. These sins have the effect of causing us to drift farther and farther away from God and his will for our lives. Ever so gradually, we bend and twist the will of God to allow for our sinful behavior. We make excuses for sinful activity as if God should understand that his commands don’t apply to us. We sure can point out the sins of others and somehow remain blameless in our own eyes!
“Grace be unto you and peace from God our Father and from our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.”
9 How can a young man keep his way pure?
By living according to your word.
10 I seek you with all my heart;
do not let me stray from your commands.
11 I have hidden your word in my heart
that I might not sin against you.
12 Praise be to you, O Lord;
teach me your decrees.
13 With my lips I recount
all the laws that come from your mouth.
14 I rejoice in following your statutes
as one rejoices in great riches.
15 I meditate on your precepts
and consider your ways.
16 I delight in your decrees;
I will not neglect your word.
So, how can a young man keep his way pure? It is more difficult for your children than it was for mine. When I was raising my family, the values taught in the home were similar to the values taught by the general public. We didn’t have to deal with gender identity issues. We didn’t have to deal with video games with real life looking characters that blow people up with blood splattering everywhere or language that can even make a sailor blush. We didn’t have to deal with gunmen in school hallways. We didn’t worry about bullying laws. There was no need for children to have phones with them wherever they went. I think life was easier for them and for parents.
Life has changed. And, in my opinion, it is not getting better. So the question becomes even more important with each new generation:
How can a young man keep his way pure?
Be on guard against sin
Be thankful for God’s grace
It is easy to let down our guard. You live in a relatively safe community. You send your children to relatively safe schools. You see your children before and after school and have opportunities to talk to them about the things going on in their lives. But what you don’t know is what they don’t tell you. They don’t always tell you about the things that were said or done at school because they don’t want to be a snitch. For instance, they don’t come home from school and say, “Today was a busy day for Satan. He laid all kinds of traps in my way to try to lead me into sin.” Sometimes the children are not even aware of the danger they face to their soul.
What we do know is that the temptations the children face are no different than those we face. Sure, sins can have different names. But all temptations are intended to lead us to forget, ignore or drift away from the will of God. Sins of ignorance are sins committed unintentionally. These sins have the effect of causing us to drift farther and farther away from God and his will for our lives. Ever so gradually, we bend and twist the will of God to allow for our sinful behavior. We make excuses for sinful activity as if God should understand that his commands don’t apply to us. We sure can point out the sins of others and somehow remain blameless in our own eyes!
Here is what happens when we let down our guard and allow sin to have its way in our lives. We wake up one day and realize that we have made a mess of our lives and we don’t know what to do to repair the damage. There is no way for us to justify our lives. It is only then that our ears are open to the message of Christ and his forgiving grace. Jesus is the only one who can cleanse us from our sins. The Bible says that the blood of Jesus purifies us from all sin. If you want to keep your ways pure, it has to be by keeping your eyes on Christ.
With your eyes focused on Christ, you can say with the psalmist: “I seek you with all my heart; do not let me stray from your commands. I have hidden your Word in my heart that I might not sin against you.” At the end of the day to be on guard against sin is a matter of the heart. If the heart isn’t in the chase for the Lord, you won’t be either. The prophet Isaiah wrote, “Seek the Lord while he may be found; call on him while he is near.” There is no other way to stay close to your Savior than to stay busy striving to get to know him better. St. Paul put it this way: “I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his suffering becoming like him in his death and so somehow to attain to the resurrection of the dead.” That is how a young man or old man, a young lady or a sweet grandmother can keep his way pure.
Reckless living has got to come to an end! Racing through life ignoring the will of God only breeds heartache and pain in our lives. Parents, your children need you to guide their lives with the Word of God. Did you pay attention to the Word of God from 2 Timothy? St. Paul said, the Word of God is “useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good deed.” Use the Word of God as you raise your children. Rebuke them when they sin. Correct their behavior. Train them how to live as God’s children. That’s how you can help a young man keep his way pure.